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Our topic today is something that again, really is an obvious topic and is commonly heard but unfortunately is not commonly put to work. Everyone knows that they need to set goals in life and in their home based business but many times we fail actually set the goals and make ourselves work at it. Many people will set a goal and then if they do not meet that goal, they will just decide that it did not work and they were not meant to achieve that goal. The problem here is that this is not an action that is worthy of reward, so most all the time when people do this, they never get the result they desired in the beginning. In order for you to get where you want to go, you can’t just set a goal with a deadline and then give up if you don;t meet that goal in that time span. You must keep working at it, maybe even change your approach slightly, until you reach that goal.
The other thing that is really important with setting a good goal is that it needs to be something important. It needs to be something that is stimulating to you to reach. Your goals should not be set at a level that you know you can obviously achieve, but rather they should be goals that you would get really excited about but that also may seem unrealistic to you in that moment. Unrealistic goals are the best goals to go after, especially in the beginning because if it seems unrealistic at that time then that just means that you have not had a chance to after something larger than what you may have achieved in the past.
For example, for a man like Tony Robbins it seemed very unrealistic and illogical to make $100,000 per day when he first started out. But if you fast forward to where he is today he now earns over a $100,000 per hour at times. The same thing goes for Jim Rohn when he was in his twenties. He could not even afford $2 to buy a box of Girl Scout cookies and now he is in his seventies and makes several million dollars per month. His reality has changed now to expect no less than that amount of money every month.
These success stories started off simply with them expecting to create a result that they did not know how to go after. From there, their belief that they could go after this result created the reality around them that they had doorways that they could enter to begin making that goal happen.
How do you start in selecting a good goal to go after?
First, I figure out something that I specifically want and I write it down. You can’t just say “I would like to do this” in your mind. You have to actually sit down, and write down specifically what you want to do and why. So if your goal is to make $75,000 this year from your home based business then write down exactly what you will gain from making that money and what it will allow you to do. Be very detailed when you do this because you really want it to make an emotional connection.
From there, write down what will be the consequence if you do not make $75,000 this year. Be very specific and detailed with this as well. You want to be able to see the pain that could come from not achieving this goal because this will make you work even harder towards achieving it.
Then, you absolutely need to set a deadline for this goal so that you push yourself and you stay on task. This will keep you on track and keep it fresh on your mind so you are constantly thinking that you need to work towards this goal. The other thing that having a deadline set for yourself will do for you is once you achieve that goal and you meet that deadline, it instantly raises your confidence level and makes you feel happier and better about yourself because you did accomplish this task that you set for yourself.
Always be sure to keep a goal on your mind and stay focused on that goal until you reach it.
See you on the next lesson,
Dianne Muhly